I talked with Jeff tonight to get this update. First time it comes directly from him. Whoop! Whoop!
So many wins I don't know where to begin...
Jeff got another Shamu shower today. Wednesday is the last day of the IV. No more tubes! No more tubes!
Jeff gets up at 8am and gets dressed and into his wheelchair. From there, it's breakfast and occupational therapy exercises. OT consists of every day things like rolling over to sit up. Jeff is blown away by the many techniques they show him and how much he can do with just a little practice and repetition.
At 10am, Jeff heads to physical therapy for a few hours. Things are going well. The therapists tell him that he is accomplishing things in 2 days that take others 2 weeks. The current estimate for his length of stay is 6 weeks - nothing firm yet, but he is fighting for that goal.
After lunch, Jeff says "it's freedom." Freedom to go where he wants and do what he wants. The rec room, his room for a nap, anywhere he so pleases.
He is getting better sleep, but they still have to wake him frequently. However, this morning, that mama bear we all know as Amanda scared off 4 people while he was sleeping. They had some procedures to do, but she said no way. They came back later - I would, too. Just sayin.
My favorite part of our conversation...Jeff said most of his food cravings since he woke up have been FRUIT. How cool is that?! I've been trying to make that guy eat healthier forever. Love, love this news.
Keep up the hard work, Jeff. Every win gets a big cheer from the crowd. We love it!
Enjoying our first trip to Lake Martinez, AZ "the river". Good times! Finding our new normal.
Tuesday, January 31, 2012
Sunday, January 29, 2012
Lovin Shamu
Jeff got his first real shower today since Jan. 3. With the help of a shower gurney (aka Shamu), he got to use his fancy shampoo and his phoofy body wash. Pretty boy!
More importantly, the trach is gone! Jeff is completely breathing on his own. In addition, most of his congestion and cough has subsided along with it.
Yesterday, he donned one of his Fox shirts for the first time, too, complemented by the famous cargo shorts.
He is enjoying the physical therapy and occupational therapy exercises and is in good spirits. All the hard work is tiring, so he has been getting some healthy naps.
Food is good and the Arnold Palmers are flowing.
Amanda has also gotten some good sleep the last couple of nights. Jeff has no roommate, so she gets the other bed.
They seem to be settling in to the new digs and working hard to learn the ropes.
More importantly, the trach is gone! Jeff is completely breathing on his own. In addition, most of his congestion and cough has subsided along with it.
Yesterday, he donned one of his Fox shirts for the first time, too, complemented by the famous cargo shorts.
He is enjoying the physical therapy and occupational therapy exercises and is in good spirits. All the hard work is tiring, so he has been getting some healthy naps.
Food is good and the Arnold Palmers are flowing.
Amanda has also gotten some good sleep the last couple of nights. Jeff has no roommate, so she gets the other bed.
They seem to be settling in to the new digs and working hard to learn the ropes.
Saturday, January 28, 2012
Togetherness; Well, that's all I'm after...
Come one, Come all. If you're in the area, Jeff wants company. You can visit him at the address below.
For those of you far away, send him a note to say hello or a picture to fill his room. While you may not be able to visit in person, your mug shot will make him feel as if you are there.
Sharp Rehabilitation Center
2999 Health Center Drive
San Diego, CA 92123
Room 154-2
Parking is available on the street or in the parking structure for $3 a day.
The best times for a visit during the week are the later part of the afternoon or early evening since his days are filled with therapy. Weekends are a little more flexible - he still does therapy, but not for as long.
I hope to get some pictures of his new digs and will share them with you here.
For those of you far away, send him a note to say hello or a picture to fill his room. While you may not be able to visit in person, your mug shot will make him feel as if you are there.
Sharp Rehabilitation Center
2999 Health Center Drive
San Diego, CA 92123
Room 154-2
Parking is available on the street or in the parking structure for $3 a day.
The best times for a visit during the week are the later part of the afternoon or early evening since his days are filled with therapy. Weekends are a little more flexible - he still does therapy, but not for as long.
I hope to get some pictures of his new digs and will share them with you here.
Friday, January 27, 2012
Movin Up and Movin Out
Check it out, folks. The big guy is moving to his new digs TODAY! 1:30pm PST, Jeff is headed to the Sharps Rehab Facility.
It's closer to home - just a 10 minute drive for Amanda and the moms - 15 minutes shorter that the current ride to the hospital.
The best part of today, in my opinion, is that Jeff finally gets to put on his own clothes. He is going to shed that hospital gown and wear a good old t-shirt. I recommended that they burn the hospital gown - maybe a nice big bonfire to celebrate, roasting some marshmallows would be nice.
He is moving with the trach, but it should be gone in a few days.
Jeff had a slew of visitors to his 5th floor digs last night - of course, they come out of the woodwork when you move up, right?!
Amanda has been back to work a little this week, and she anticipates going back part-time once he gets settled in the rehab center.
All-in-all, Jeff is feeling pretty good and ready to get moving.
It's closer to home - just a 10 minute drive for Amanda and the moms - 15 minutes shorter that the current ride to the hospital.
The best part of today, in my opinion, is that Jeff finally gets to put on his own clothes. He is going to shed that hospital gown and wear a good old t-shirt. I recommended that they burn the hospital gown - maybe a nice big bonfire to celebrate, roasting some marshmallows would be nice.
He is moving with the trach, but it should be gone in a few days.
Jeff had a slew of visitors to his 5th floor digs last night - of course, they come out of the woodwork when you move up, right?!
Amanda has been back to work a little this week, and she anticipates going back part-time once he gets settled in the rehab center.
All-in-all, Jeff is feeling pretty good and ready to get moving.
Wednesday, January 25, 2012
Mooovin on Up
What's that you say? Jeff is moving up to the 5th floor?! Well, I'll be damned. His good spirits are lifting him - literally. This morning they were just waiting on a room to open up, but very soon Jeff will be out of ICU and comfy on the 5th floor. Talk about comfy - Amanda will actually have a bed to sleep on in the new room. No more trying to get shut-eye on a couple of lumpy chairs.
Damn, Gina.
Things are moving so fast. They expect to remove the trach in 1-2 days. Jeff is an eating machine - real food! He can talk all the time now, so you all know how that goes. Blab, Blab, blab.
BJ, my hubby, got to visit last night and they had a grand old time. Rod, the resp. therapist brought in his ukelele and they had a sing-a-long.
The rehab facility reps came by to meet Jeff and Amanda and Andrew were headed over for a site tour at 2pm PST today. That's 5pm for you Michigan folks. Should I compare the temps, too? Just kidding, just kidding.
I hope tomorrow to tell you that Jeff saw the outdoors today and is all settled in his new digs. All limbs crossed.
Damn, Gina.
Things are moving so fast. They expect to remove the trach in 1-2 days. Jeff is an eating machine - real food! He can talk all the time now, so you all know how that goes. Blab, Blab, blab.
BJ, my hubby, got to visit last night and they had a grand old time. Rod, the resp. therapist brought in his ukelele and they had a sing-a-long.
The rehab facility reps came by to meet Jeff and Amanda and Andrew were headed over for a site tour at 2pm PST today. That's 5pm for you Michigan folks. Should I compare the temps, too? Just kidding, just kidding.
I hope tomorrow to tell you that Jeff saw the outdoors today and is all settled in his new digs. All limbs crossed.
Monday, January 23, 2012
When the sun shines
They've had a couple of days of rain in San Diego, but when the sun comes out we're hoping Jeff gets to go outside and sit for a spell.
He's getting a little more talk time each day and gets to sit up in the brace and push back. He enjoys being challenged and picking on his respiratory therapist a little here and there.
The therapist has shown Amanda a few stretches and exercises that she can help Jeff with, too. He needs to do them three times a day. She decided to participate in a little picking on the guy, too - good thing he has a sense of humor.
Each day is full of little wins and progress. Keep sending your well wishes!
He's getting a little more talk time each day and gets to sit up in the brace and push back. He enjoys being challenged and picking on his respiratory therapist a little here and there.
The therapist has shown Amanda a few stretches and exercises that she can help Jeff with, too. He needs to do them three times a day. She decided to participate in a little picking on the guy, too - good thing he has a sense of humor.
Each day is full of little wins and progress. Keep sending your well wishes!
Positively Funny Guy
So, Jeff and Joan (Mom) were chatting...
"Mom, I told you I wanted you to come to San Diego for the winter."
Joan, "Well, you know, Jeff, this is a little extreme."
Isn't he funny?
"Mom, I told you I wanted you to come to San Diego for the winter."
Joan, "Well, you know, Jeff, this is a little extreme."
Isn't he funny?
Saturday, January 21, 2012
Mr. Positive Attitude
The nurses and staff are raving about Jeff's positive attitude. Each day he and the respiratory therapist go over goals for him to accomplish. He wants to know the goals so, "I can exceed them!"
Jeff is spending more time awake and engaged each day, and he is doing everything he can to get better and get out of that ICU. While doing his respiratory therapy exercises on Friday, he declared, "Bam! I got this." and, the nurse replied, "You're a rock star!"
While Jeff may still have ups and downs, his positive attitude is winning. He shows excitement over the wins - big or small. He said, "I thought being able to talk again was cool, and then they brought that brace in and tried to push me. That's the coolest thing to happen since I got here."
The number one goal is to get him off that ventilator, and each day he moves a little closer. They'll begin some new treatments over the next couple of days to start expanding and exercising Jeff's lungs. On Monday, they plan to put a smaller trach tube in.
Stay positive, Rock Star! You are inspiring us with all your hard work.
Jeff is spending more time awake and engaged each day, and he is doing everything he can to get better and get out of that ICU. While doing his respiratory therapy exercises on Friday, he declared, "Bam! I got this." and, the nurse replied, "You're a rock star!"
While Jeff may still have ups and downs, his positive attitude is winning. He shows excitement over the wins - big or small. He said, "I thought being able to talk again was cool, and then they brought that brace in and tried to push me. That's the coolest thing to happen since I got here."
The number one goal is to get him off that ventilator, and each day he moves a little closer. They'll begin some new treatments over the next couple of days to start expanding and exercising Jeff's lungs. On Monday, they plan to put a smaller trach tube in.
Stay positive, Rock Star! You are inspiring us with all your hard work.
Request for help: Wearable Therapy
Dena has been a researching mad-woman and discovered this rehabilitation technology that we are sure will help Jeff in his recovery - over the long haul.
www.wearabletherapy.com
This is vital for muscle memory, nerve stimulation and overall health maintainence. This is not an item insurance approves....the cost is $23,000 GOOD NEWS is WE have already Received $17,000.
I AM ASKING EVERYONE WE KNOW TO PLEASE MAKE ANY SIZE DONATION THIS WEEKEND!!
Jeff will be in rehab and into recovery before we know, it would be amazing to make this part of his therapy from the onset.
www.wearabletherapy.com
This is vital for muscle memory, nerve stimulation and overall health maintainence. This is not an item insurance approves....the cost is $23,000 GOOD NEWS is WE have already Received $17,000.
I AM ASKING EVERYONE WE KNOW TO PLEASE MAKE ANY SIZE DONATION THIS WEEKEND!!
Jeff will be in rehab and into recovery before we know, it would be amazing to make this part of his therapy from the onset.
Pushing back
The past couple of days have flown by with more wins by Jeff. Amanda is calling me today to give more details, so look for another post later on Saturday. However, thought I would share this one story.
Friday morning, the nurses put Jeff in a brace that supported him to sit up on the edge of the bed. Then, they started pushing him to test his core abilities. Well, you can imagine what happened...
In his words, "I started pushing back. They didn't know who they were messing with. I'm from the "D"."
He pushed back a lot and he said it felt good.
Jeff continues to express how much the connection with all of you means to him, so don't stop your comments on the blog, your FaceBook posts and all your prayers and well wishes.
Friday morning, the nurses put Jeff in a brace that supported him to sit up on the edge of the bed. Then, they started pushing him to test his core abilities. Well, you can imagine what happened...
In his words, "I started pushing back. They didn't know who they were messing with. I'm from the "D"."
He pushed back a lot and he said it felt good.
Jeff continues to express how much the connection with all of you means to him, so don't stop your comments on the blog, your FaceBook posts and all your prayers and well wishes.
Wednesday, January 18, 2012
Making progress
Wiggly Waggly! Mr. Jeff wiggled the toes on his left foot several times yesterday and today - on command. Unbelievable.
He has spent a couple of hours over the last 2 days sitting up in a chair. There are no more tubes going into or out of Jeff's mouth, so you can picture his big smile when his lovely wife enters the room.
Jeff's blood pressure is stabilized now. Everything is improving AND quickly now.
This also allowed him to eat food - Hooray! He had a tasty meal of of apple sauce, crackers and water. Something we all take for granted - ice water makes him so happy.
A follow up on the Ally visit - she jumped right up on his bed and laid on his legs for an hour. They both just sat there smiling at each other. The nurses told Amanda, "You made our day." She let the staff know how they made her day by treating them to 2 dozen donuts. :)
He is also enjoying gossiping about the bachelor with the nurses - they love talking trash about the girls on the show.
Keep in mind that this recovery is a long road and no one can predict what is to come, but the progress is awesome and inspiring.
He has spent a couple of hours over the last 2 days sitting up in a chair. There are no more tubes going into or out of Jeff's mouth, so you can picture his big smile when his lovely wife enters the room.
Jeff's blood pressure is stabilized now. Everything is improving AND quickly now.
This also allowed him to eat food - Hooray! He had a tasty meal of of apple sauce, crackers and water. Something we all take for granted - ice water makes him so happy.
A follow up on the Ally visit - she jumped right up on his bed and laid on his legs for an hour. They both just sat there smiling at each other. The nurses told Amanda, "You made our day." She let the staff know how they made her day by treating them to 2 dozen donuts. :)
He is also enjoying gossiping about the bachelor with the nurses - they love talking trash about the girls on the show.
Keep in mind that this recovery is a long road and no one can predict what is to come, but the progress is awesome and inspiring.
Tuesday, January 17, 2012
Progress update
Jeff is looking good! They finally shaved his porn stache. His breathing trials are going great and he's getting stronger every day - Hoping he'll be off breathing assistance within a week.
Oh, I so don't want to write this next one...seriously?!
He got to watch the bachelor last night! For those of you who don't know, Jeffyyy is in a bachelor fantasy league. He got to watch the show with Kendra and root for his picks - Nicki and Monica.
Wow! OK, deep breath. I love you, Jeff. When you are stronger, I'm looking forward to punching you a few times for the bachelor stuff. ;)
Oh, I so don't want to write this next one...seriously?!
He got to watch the bachelor last night! For those of you who don't know, Jeffyyy is in a bachelor fantasy league. He got to watch the show with Kendra and root for his picks - Nicki and Monica.
Wow! OK, deep breath. I love you, Jeff. When you are stronger, I'm looking forward to punching you a few times for the bachelor stuff. ;)
Ally made a surprise visit!
How cool is it that the ICU staff let Amanda sneak Jeff's baby girl, Ally, in for a visit?!
I can't even imagine how happy that made both the man and his dog. I have tears in my eyes just writing this.
Nothing more comforting that the unconditional love of a pup.
Way to go, Amanda!
I can't even imagine how happy that made both the man and his dog. I have tears in my eyes just writing this.
Nothing more comforting that the unconditional love of a pup.
Way to go, Amanda!
Sunday, January 15, 2012
A good weekend of progress
This weekend has been good. Jeff is getting stronger everyday. He's getting his color back and is showing a lot of strength in his upper body.
While he can't talk yet, he is using his own version of sign language and hand communication. He gets someone guessing at what he is trying to say and confirms the right answer with a snap and point - they are having fun interacting with him. Including, of course, using his middle finger to react to someone's joke or comment. His sense of humor is as joyful as ever.
And, get this! Apparently, Jeff has a hidden talent - he is kicking everyone's butt at thumb war. Who Knew?!
The nurses and doctors are resting a little better now that Jeff is more alert. They have less wrestling with him and he is behaving much better. In fact, he has started engaging with the doctors and asking questions about his condition and what they are doing to him.
Today he wanted to know how long he will be in the hospital, when he will be able to talk after the trach, and when he can have solid foods. He is ready to get the tube out of his mouth from the vent, and is patiently waiting to get the trach tomorrow. Amanda said, "We have been counting it down."
Personally, I find comfort in his approach to the tracheotomy - When I first heard that, I was scared and unsure. I'm thankful that he is positive about that next step, and nurses and doctors are confident that it will help move his healing along.
Amanda has been reading him the blog and all of your comments - She can see the appreciation and love in his eyes when he hears all the thoughts and prayers.
It's Jeff, right? So, he is bored. She is also reading all the Facebook updates and posts, so keep sharing what is going on in your world. It helps him to see the outside world through all our eyes.
He has been asking about news and current events, so they are reading him stories and news. Each day, they tell him the day and the time to help keep him connected.
Amanda brought Jeff their sleep machine a few days ago. It really helps him relax and get good sleep, which is hard when they come in to shift him every two hours and poke and prod him all the time. Now, if you know Amanda, you know this is a gigantic expression of love!
Jeff is beginning to understand the long road ahead, and he seems to be ready for the fight.
While he can't talk yet, he is using his own version of sign language and hand communication. He gets someone guessing at what he is trying to say and confirms the right answer with a snap and point - they are having fun interacting with him. Including, of course, using his middle finger to react to someone's joke or comment. His sense of humor is as joyful as ever.
And, get this! Apparently, Jeff has a hidden talent - he is kicking everyone's butt at thumb war. Who Knew?!
The nurses and doctors are resting a little better now that Jeff is more alert. They have less wrestling with him and he is behaving much better. In fact, he has started engaging with the doctors and asking questions about his condition and what they are doing to him.
Today he wanted to know how long he will be in the hospital, when he will be able to talk after the trach, and when he can have solid foods. He is ready to get the tube out of his mouth from the vent, and is patiently waiting to get the trach tomorrow. Amanda said, "We have been counting it down."
Personally, I find comfort in his approach to the tracheotomy - When I first heard that, I was scared and unsure. I'm thankful that he is positive about that next step, and nurses and doctors are confident that it will help move his healing along.
Amanda has been reading him the blog and all of your comments - She can see the appreciation and love in his eyes when he hears all the thoughts and prayers.
It's Jeff, right? So, he is bored. She is also reading all the Facebook updates and posts, so keep sharing what is going on in your world. It helps him to see the outside world through all our eyes.
He has been asking about news and current events, so they are reading him stories and news. Each day, they tell him the day and the time to help keep him connected.
Amanda brought Jeff their sleep machine a few days ago. It really helps him relax and get good sleep, which is hard when they come in to shift him every two hours and poke and prod him all the time. Now, if you know Amanda, you know this is a gigantic expression of love!
Jeff is beginning to understand the long road ahead, and he seems to be ready for the fight.
Saturday, January 14, 2012
48 hour Donation Drive
Hello this is Andrew Hippert a good friend of Jeff's here is San Diego. One of my focuses is to raise as much money as we can for Jeff and Amanda! Now Jeff has 89 login followers and I'm sure hundreds more so what I am asking everyone to do is put a message on your facebook, twitter, your own blog, any where you can with a link to Jeff's blog asking for donations to help this wonderful man and his strong dedicated bride. In this situation there are too many things to stress about, the last thing we want Jeff and Amanda to worry about is Money! So let's spread the word and see how many donations we can flood them with. Ill start it out with the first $100. Remember no donation is too small.
Example post
A good friend of mine Jeff Adkins was recently hit by a car on his motorcycle and suffered a life changing spinal cord injury. He needs support and financial donation now more then ever. Please help my friend and learn more by donating on his blog at
www.jeffadkinsblog.blogspot.com
Example post
A good friend of mine Jeff Adkins was recently hit by a car on his motorcycle and suffered a life changing spinal cord injury. He needs support and financial donation now more then ever. Please help my friend and learn more by donating on his blog at
www.jeffadkinsblog.blogspot.com
Friday was another tough day
Let's start on a positive...one of their amazing friends was able to get new glasses created for Jeff in one day! For those of you that know Jeff, that was no easy feat - Lens Crafters told us they wouldn't even make glasses that strong - seriously, they said their company doesn't make them. You can imagine how it went when I said to the woman, "but aren't you a company that makes eyeglasses?" Thankfully, one of the angel's had a connection.
Giving Jeff back his sight is huge and when he was alert on Friday, it made it easier to communicate.
However, the frustration is growing with the ventilator. They did another bronchoscopy and the mucus is still an issue - mainly, because Jeff is unable to cough strong enough to move it out. He'll have some additional breathing trials this weekend, but the doctors feel that he is likely to have a tracheotomy on Monday if things don't improve.
Unfortunately, this extends the process and his time in ICU and delays progress and getting him to rehab. A very disappointing day at the hospital Friday.
We all know it takes time, but everyone is ready to move forward with the healing process, especially Jeff. Keep the thoughts and prayers strong and call in those favors for more!
Giving Jeff back his sight is huge and when he was alert on Friday, it made it easier to communicate.
However, the frustration is growing with the ventilator. They did another bronchoscopy and the mucus is still an issue - mainly, because Jeff is unable to cough strong enough to move it out. He'll have some additional breathing trials this weekend, but the doctors feel that he is likely to have a tracheotomy on Monday if things don't improve.
Unfortunately, this extends the process and his time in ICU and delays progress and getting him to rehab. A very disappointing day at the hospital Friday.
We all know it takes time, but everyone is ready to move forward with the healing process, especially Jeff. Keep the thoughts and prayers strong and call in those favors for more!
Friday, January 13, 2012
Post surgery news
Jeff came through the surgery like a champ and was resting peacefully when Amanda and the Super Moms went home to get some rest of their own. Boy, did they need it. Let's hope Amanda is still slumbering.
The doctors were happy with how the surgery went and feel good about having fixed the spinal fluid leak issue. They did have to take more bone from the hip to further reconstruct the damaged vertebrae, but all went well.
The most pressing thing now is getting Jeff off that vent! He must show enough progress before Monday, so channel all your energy and lung strength his way. We want to avoid any other options such as a tracheotomy.
Not to mention, we need to hear that voice. Come on, Jeff!
The doctors were happy with how the surgery went and feel good about having fixed the spinal fluid leak issue. They did have to take more bone from the hip to further reconstruct the damaged vertebrae, but all went well.
The most pressing thing now is getting Jeff off that vent! He must show enough progress before Monday, so channel all your energy and lung strength his way. We want to avoid any other options such as a tracheotomy.
Not to mention, we need to hear that voice. Come on, Jeff!
Thursday, January 12, 2012
Update: Tough News this Thursday morning
Unfortunately, the results of the MRI indicated that there is some spinal fluid buildup, and a surgical procedure is required to drain it.
Sometime today, doctors will perform approximately 2 hours of surgery to correct it.
This will extend Jeff's time on the ventilator, but no one is sure how long at this point.
He is still alert and responding to nurses and those around him, so hopefully this just part of the process his body needs to go through to heal and make progress.
Send your strength to Jeff and Amanda today - They need it.
Sometime today, doctors will perform approximately 2 hours of surgery to correct it.
This will extend Jeff's time on the ventilator, but no one is sure how long at this point.
He is still alert and responding to nurses and those around him, so hopefully this just part of the process his body needs to go through to heal and make progress.
Send your strength to Jeff and Amanda today - They need it.
Making progress
I don't know about you, but I'm tired of counting days. Every day is precious and another step in Jeff's recovery.
Latest news is that:
I know that all our thoughts, prayers and love is giving him strength, so keep it coming. Amanda needs this army to support her.
Latest news is that:
- The mucus in Jeff's lungs is clearing, and there is a possibility that he'll get off the ventilator today (Thursday). Cross all your digits that this happens - he is very frustrated with it and he has a whole week of talking to catch up on.
- Wednesday they did an MRI to see if spinal fluid was leaking - results expected Thursday.
- He is more alert with each day.
I know that all our thoughts, prayers and love is giving him strength, so keep it coming. Amanda needs this army to support her.
Tuesday, January 10, 2012
Day 8: The sun is shining
Amanda called this morning with some positive news. Whoop Whoop!!
When the nurses were poking and prodding Jeff this morning, he responded. He has sensation on his left side - from his armpit to his toes! I say "keep poking him, nurse!" Heehee.
His fever broke last night...still on the vent...still a long way to go.
Keep fighting, Jeffy! We are all cheering you on.
When the nurses were poking and prodding Jeff this morning, he responded. He has sensation on his left side - from his armpit to his toes! I say "keep poking him, nurse!" Heehee.
His fever broke last night...still on the vent...still a long way to go.
Keep fighting, Jeffy! We are all cheering you on.
Monday, January 9, 2012
Day 7: Can it really be day 7?
In true Jeff fashion, it seems he is flirting with his ladies - he squeezed both Amanda and Mom's hands today. Amanda even got a wink-wink. :)
Unfortunately, his fever spiked today, but the pain meds are doing a good job of keeping him calm. Sounds like they finally took our advice. I'm guessing the nurse would say he is a better patient today.
For those of you who don't know, Jeff's alter ego is a gossiping girl. It's only appropriate that Amanda and mom would turn on some of his favorite smut today. The line up includes: Judge Judy and wait for it...the Bachelor.
We're still looking at some time on the ventilator, so hopefully he will let it do the work and get some serious rest while he watches his shows.
Another helper is on her way - Amanda's mom is arriving on Thursday to be at their sides and take care of her baby girl. Safe travels, mom!
Unfortunately, his fever spiked today, but the pain meds are doing a good job of keeping him calm. Sounds like they finally took our advice. I'm guessing the nurse would say he is a better patient today.
For those of you who don't know, Jeff's alter ego is a gossiping girl. It's only appropriate that Amanda and mom would turn on some of his favorite smut today. The line up includes: Judge Judy and wait for it...the Bachelor.
We're still looking at some time on the ventilator, so hopefully he will let it do the work and get some serious rest while he watches his shows.
Another helper is on her way - Amanda's mom is arriving on Thursday to be at their sides and take care of her baby girl. Safe travels, mom!
Sunday, January 8, 2012
The Cast
For those of you who can't be here, I thought you'd enjoy learning about the cast of family and friends surrounding Jeff. Remember, Jeff is the guy who will do anything for anyone and that is so apparent by the love and loyalty surrounding him.
Amanda - The strongest woman we all know. Keeping watch over her man day and night, she is a rock. When she leaves his side, it's to take care of business - paperwork, phone calls and all things needed to keep things moving. Her love gives us all strength.
Joan/Mom - Mom flew in like superwoman to keep vigil at her boy's bedside. She keeps us all entertained with stories of Jeff's many adventures. Her quiet strength is inspiring and she gives him comfort with her loving touch.
Julie - Jeff's sister who watches over mom and Jeff like a mother hen. She may be miles away, but her presence is felt and her love is so strong.
Amanda's family in Michigan - Her mother, father and sisters who protect her with ferocity. They continue to give her strength and guidance and send their love.
Jeanne - The neighbor with a halo. Jeanie is a nurse. She speaks to Jeff's nurses and doctors several times a day and gets the real deal. She has no fear and makes sure they all know she will take charge if need be. She truly is an angel to Jeff and Amanda.
Mike - The other neighbor with a halo. Mike has taken charge of caring for the dogs at home, keeping watch over the house and even cooking fabulous meals for everyone. Mike and Jeanie are the dynamic duo.
Pam-I-Am - Amanda's sidekick. Pam did not leave her side for 3 days. She recently took a break to visit her ailing father, but checks in several times a day. Pam is a vodka mop and a best friend to both Amanda and Jeff. She's here for the long haul.
Kyle and Jaron - What can one say about this pair?! With Jeff, they are the three stooges. Inappropriate humor and fiercely loyal friendship bond them together. They will not leave his side and are taking care of his lady as if she was theirs.
Andrew - The other friend that has not left Amanda's side. Andrew brings a personal perspective to Jeff's situation. His wealth of knowledge will prove to be invaluable. Not only a loving, loyal friend, Andrew will serve as a teacher throughout this entire experience. His loving fiancee, Kalli - so strong and dependable - is always by his side.
Nicholle - Jaron's saint of a wife. She stands by her friends and keeps the boys in check. Nicole quietly observes and swiftly takes action when needed.
Rene and BJ - Jeff is a brother to me. Since our teens, he has been a thorn in my side and the best friend I could ever have. BJ is his bud - I never knew two grown men could text so much! While we live one state away, we'll be here every moment we can, and we'll do as much as we can from a distance.
So, many others that we can all thank for being here:
The girlfriends (Roze and Lisa) who spit-shined Jeff and Amanda's house this weekend. Rob and Ty, the buddies who made some much-needed repairs to the Jeep and returned it home. All the boat club friends who continue to visit and send their well wishes and prayers. Their landlord, Mark, who immediately and without hesitation, gave permission to make any accommodations necessary to make sure he is comfortable in their home.
And, of course, all of you across the country whose thoughts and prayers continue to give Jeff and Amanda strength.
Amanda - The strongest woman we all know. Keeping watch over her man day and night, she is a rock. When she leaves his side, it's to take care of business - paperwork, phone calls and all things needed to keep things moving. Her love gives us all strength.
Joan/Mom - Mom flew in like superwoman to keep vigil at her boy's bedside. She keeps us all entertained with stories of Jeff's many adventures. Her quiet strength is inspiring and she gives him comfort with her loving touch.
Julie - Jeff's sister who watches over mom and Jeff like a mother hen. She may be miles away, but her presence is felt and her love is so strong.
Amanda's family in Michigan - Her mother, father and sisters who protect her with ferocity. They continue to give her strength and guidance and send their love.
Jeanne - The neighbor with a halo. Jeanie is a nurse. She speaks to Jeff's nurses and doctors several times a day and gets the real deal. She has no fear and makes sure they all know she will take charge if need be. She truly is an angel to Jeff and Amanda.
Mike - The other neighbor with a halo. Mike has taken charge of caring for the dogs at home, keeping watch over the house and even cooking fabulous meals for everyone. Mike and Jeanie are the dynamic duo.
Pam-I-Am - Amanda's sidekick. Pam did not leave her side for 3 days. She recently took a break to visit her ailing father, but checks in several times a day. Pam is a vodka mop and a best friend to both Amanda and Jeff. She's here for the long haul.
Kyle and Jaron - What can one say about this pair?! With Jeff, they are the three stooges. Inappropriate humor and fiercely loyal friendship bond them together. They will not leave his side and are taking care of his lady as if she was theirs.
Andrew - The other friend that has not left Amanda's side. Andrew brings a personal perspective to Jeff's situation. His wealth of knowledge will prove to be invaluable. Not only a loving, loyal friend, Andrew will serve as a teacher throughout this entire experience. His loving fiancee, Kalli - so strong and dependable - is always by his side.
Nicholle - Jaron's saint of a wife. She stands by her friends and keeps the boys in check. Nicole quietly observes and swiftly takes action when needed.
Rene and BJ - Jeff is a brother to me. Since our teens, he has been a thorn in my side and the best friend I could ever have. BJ is his bud - I never knew two grown men could text so much! While we live one state away, we'll be here every moment we can, and we'll do as much as we can from a distance.
So, many others that we can all thank for being here:
The girlfriends (Roze and Lisa) who spit-shined Jeff and Amanda's house this weekend. Rob and Ty, the buddies who made some much-needed repairs to the Jeep and returned it home. All the boat club friends who continue to visit and send their well wishes and prayers. Their landlord, Mark, who immediately and without hesitation, gave permission to make any accommodations necessary to make sure he is comfortable in their home.
And, of course, all of you across the country whose thoughts and prayers continue to give Jeff and Amanda strength.
Day 6: A day of rest
As expected, not a lot of change today, but a few good notes:
1. They are reducing one of the meds to start letting Jeff become more alert over the next couple of days.
2. The mucus in his lungs is continuing to break up and decrease.
3. He is largely breathing on his own.
We do expect him to remain on the ventilator for another 2-3 days. But, provided things continue to improve, we're making progress.
We warned the staff about number 1 above - they'd better call in the tough guys. As one nurse said, "Shhh, let the lion rest."
1. They are reducing one of the meds to start letting Jeff become more alert over the next couple of days.
2. The mucus in his lungs is continuing to break up and decrease.
3. He is largely breathing on his own.
We do expect him to remain on the ventilator for another 2-3 days. But, provided things continue to improve, we're making progress.
We warned the staff about number 1 above - they'd better call in the tough guys. As one nurse said, "Shhh, let the lion rest."
Saturday, January 7, 2012
Day 5: Slow progress
Sincere apologies for the late post today. Wish we had more news, but progress is still slow to come. We are doing a lot of waiting. I'm running out of ways to repeat myself and not lose my audience. Hang with us.
Jeff is still on the ventilator due to the mucus in his lungs. Not much can happen until we can toss that darn thing in the trash.
However, he is still fighting with all his might. Don't be discouraged by the slow progress.
In fact, his afternoon nurse greeted the respiratory therapist with this quote "I've been fighting with him all day!" She was exhausted. She also referred to him as "a sleeping bear." I promptly reminded her that we've all been told not to poke a sleeping bear - she poked him a lot! I think another nurse called him "Mr. Wonderful!"
He still knows we are here and responds when we speak to him. His hand squeeze is almost as comforting as his hugs.
Amanda and mom both got a solid night's sleep last night. They are keeping their strength for when the bear wakes up.
Amanda also got a lot of business done today - she is insanely organized in the midst of this chaos! Amazing Amanda - that's what we'll call her.
The Lions lost - guess they needed the big guy yelling at the TV. Just like Jeff, they will recover and come back bigger and stronger next year.
We all need our rest.
Jeff is still on the ventilator due to the mucus in his lungs. Not much can happen until we can toss that darn thing in the trash.
However, he is still fighting with all his might. Don't be discouraged by the slow progress.
In fact, his afternoon nurse greeted the respiratory therapist with this quote "I've been fighting with him all day!" She was exhausted. She also referred to him as "a sleeping bear." I promptly reminded her that we've all been told not to poke a sleeping bear - she poked him a lot! I think another nurse called him "Mr. Wonderful!"
He still knows we are here and responds when we speak to him. His hand squeeze is almost as comforting as his hugs.
Amanda and mom both got a solid night's sleep last night. They are keeping their strength for when the bear wakes up.
Amanda also got a lot of business done today - she is insanely organized in the midst of this chaos! Amazing Amanda - that's what we'll call her.
The Lions lost - guess they needed the big guy yelling at the TV. Just like Jeff, they will recover and come back bigger and stronger next year.
We all need our rest.
Friday, January 6, 2012
Day 4 Update
It's been a good day. Jeffy got a shampoo, head massage and style from his loving wife by way of a shampoo cap - who knew they made shower caps with shampoo built right in?! We all know how much he loves having good hair - he's all pretty again.
Unfortunately, Rene had to assist the nurse with his restraints and help tie his arm down. I secretly enjoyed it, but we'll keep that between us.
The positive side to the restraint is that he clearly has full use of his arms and hands and a LOT of strength. In fact, he flicked the oxygen sensor right off his index finger with a lot of attitude. We've since moved it to his toe.
Speaking of his feet, his new high-tech blue boot arrived today. It helps keep his tendons from tightening up and prevents foot drop. Every couple of hours they switch the boot from one foot to the other.
The mucus in his lungs is breaking up and decreasing. They'll continue to monitor it through the night and into tomorrow, but it appears he is making good progress.
We have a long way to go, so hang tight and stay positive.
Good night!
Unfortunately, Rene had to assist the nurse with his restraints and help tie his arm down. I secretly enjoyed it, but we'll keep that between us.
The positive side to the restraint is that he clearly has full use of his arms and hands and a LOT of strength. In fact, he flicked the oxygen sensor right off his index finger with a lot of attitude. We've since moved it to his toe.
Speaking of his feet, his new high-tech blue boot arrived today. It helps keep his tendons from tightening up and prevents foot drop. Every couple of hours they switch the boot from one foot to the other.
The mucus in his lungs is breaking up and decreasing. They'll continue to monitor it through the night and into tomorrow, but it appears he is making good progress.
We have a long way to go, so hang tight and stay positive.
Good night!
Day 4: Progress is slow to come
While Jeff is still his feisty self when stimulated, his condition is not improving as quickly as we'd like. However, find comfort in that he does respond when asked to squeeze or pull on the nurses hands.
He knows that Amanda and his mom are here, so I'm sure he is eager to get off the ventilator and yap at his two favorite ladies. Unfortunately, his lungs still have some fluid/mucus, so the ventilator is camping out for another day or so.
Man, there are a lot of tubes and bags and things hooked up to Jeff, but they informed us that they removed the A-line and at least one of the IVs. That central line they put in yesterday will take over the jobs of those guys.
Also, no more blood pressure medication. Yay!
Still a low-grade fever, so he got some Tylenol in his drug cocktail this morning.
They've added a couple of things to help with food and digestion, and he needed more blood today - 2 units.
Direct your thoughts, prayers and positive energy at those lungs - we need to send that vent packing!
He knows that Amanda and his mom are here, so I'm sure he is eager to get off the ventilator and yap at his two favorite ladies. Unfortunately, his lungs still have some fluid/mucus, so the ventilator is camping out for another day or so.
Man, there are a lot of tubes and bags and things hooked up to Jeff, but they informed us that they removed the A-line and at least one of the IVs. That central line they put in yesterday will take over the jobs of those guys.
Also, no more blood pressure medication. Yay!
Still a low-grade fever, so he got some Tylenol in his drug cocktail this morning.
They've added a couple of things to help with food and digestion, and he needed more blood today - 2 units.
Direct your thoughts, prayers and positive energy at those lungs - we need to send that vent packing!
Thursday, January 5, 2012
Day 3 Update
Jeff is still sedated and resting, but as expected, he is being a feisty patient. He is behaving true to his own words, "If I wanted to have patients, I'd be a doctor." A common quote that he is known to mutter when told to wait.
They inserted a feeding tube today since Jeff's stomach was growling and he has not eaten since Tuesday. Andrew made sure to inform the nurse that he is a vegetarian, and Amanda added that he hates mushrooms and peas. We're sure he is getting more nutrition from the liquid food than he gets from his regular diet.
In addition, to ensure that he doesn't have more holes than a pin cushion, they put in a central line. This allows easy access to Jeff's bloodstream for medications and taking blood.
Unfortunately, due to the buildup of mucus in his right lung, he will remain on the ventilator for at least another 48 hours. However, they recently listened to his lungs and it's already sounding better.
He does not currently have pneumonia, but it is a concern. To prevent infection and reduce risk, he is now taking a broad-spectrum antibiotic.
Continue to sit on the edge of your seat and hit refresh every 2 minutes. We'll post more updates soon.
They inserted a feeding tube today since Jeff's stomach was growling and he has not eaten since Tuesday. Andrew made sure to inform the nurse that he is a vegetarian, and Amanda added that he hates mushrooms and peas. We're sure he is getting more nutrition from the liquid food than he gets from his regular diet.
In addition, to ensure that he doesn't have more holes than a pin cushion, they put in a central line. This allows easy access to Jeff's bloodstream for medications and taking blood.
Unfortunately, due to the buildup of mucus in his right lung, he will remain on the ventilator for at least another 48 hours. However, they recently listened to his lungs and it's already sounding better.
He does not currently have pneumonia, but it is a concern. To prevent infection and reduce risk, he is now taking a broad-spectrum antibiotic.
Continue to sit on the edge of your seat and hit refresh every 2 minutes. We'll post more updates soon.
Day 3
Jeff had a long, but comfortable night last night in his new private room, but he’s still in the ICU. He is still on the ventilator, which is one of our biggest hurdles right now. It’s not that he can’t breath on his own, but with the fluid building in his lungs it’s much easier to control all aspects of his airway with the ventilator. They did a bronchoscopy, which is where they take a culture of the fluid in his lungs. We are waiting to get the results to see what is causing the fluid to develop. They started him on another round of antibiotics in an effort to fight off any infection. They are also starting respiratory therapy to help break up the fluid in his lungs to make it easier to suction out. When I came in today I was happy to see that they removed the tape from his face that is holding his tube in his mouth. Jeff appears to be more comfortable and I’m sure that he is happy they removed the split from his right hand. All vitals are good. Stay tuned!
Wednesday, January 4, 2012
Ways to help
We know and appreciate all the help everyone would like to give, but at this time, Jeff, Amanda and the family will be spending their time at the hospital. In lieu of gifts and flowers we are establishing a donation account to help with the times ahead. This will be set by the end of the week. Please check back soon.
Day 2 January 4th, 2012
Jeff went into surgery last night around 7:30pm to repair his spinal cord. A local neurosurgeon at Scripps La Jolla worked into the night finishing up around 2am. This morning we were able to view the xrays and ct scan of the hardware that was screwed into surrounding vertebrae in order to support the damaged T3 & T4 bones. Jeff was put on a ventilator in order to control his breathing during the surgery and this morning the doctors are clearing him to remove the ventilator to breathe on his own. At Amanda's request and due to ICU restrictions, we are asking you to wait before coming to visit Jeff. We will try our best to read Jeff the comments off this blog everyday to let him know everyone is thinking and praying for him.
Day 1 January 3rd, 2012
Many of you have heard our dear friend Jeff Adkins was struck by a car on his motorcycle this morning on his way to work. Jeff was brought to the emergency room at Scripps Memorial Hospital-La Jolla by ambulance. Jeff has been diagnosed with a T3 - T4 spinal cord injury. Right now, his condition is stable and he is waiting in the ICU to be moved for surgery to repair the spine. We will need all the support and prayers of all of Jeff's loved ones, for at this moment he has a very serious injury. Despite the severity of this injury, Jeff has been in good spirits between moments of heavy sedation. He was still cracking jokes like he always does.
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